Some waltz through life but never learn to dance

Today's discussion is about faking it.

And when it comes to faking it, guys do it a whole lot more thanwomen.

"I've been faking it for years," says Mike. "And I've hated thedeception. But the truth is, I really can't dance."

Yes, we are talking about the kind of faking it that makes youfeel like the social scourge of the century. We are talking aboutguys like Mike, a perfectly coordinated, perfectly intelligent manwho says, "It's like I have two dunce caps on my feet. None of thiscomes easily to me. And yet I'm real determined this time. BecauseI'm getting married and no way am I starting out my marriage fakinganything."

"That's almost always …